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the official. stream quality. favorites. if you're away from your. family start with. the type of yeah.
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in the morning. start of. the snow. they haven't been ages i can't remember the last time they were sick. kids makes them different from their peers is the fact that they live with only one parent father. single mothers are no longer an unusual phenomenon while a father devoting himself to his children is a rare occurrence for many. however in russia there are thousands of single fathers just like the romans are out of. money things that they could with. us. so the table now
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boyce. no breakfast in this family can start without saying grace roman became a believer after a serious illness that left him has breath from death in tries to instill his faith in his children. you're going to use your you of course when i took the kids to my place i simply did not know what to do i was running around like a mad man i couldn't work twenty four hours at the parking lot. so i quit my job and started looking for other means of income i took up all kinds of jobs that i came across. the court to strip the mother of her parental rights concerning these boys some time ago. and. she's always drinking. she is not my mother anymore. and she abandoned us when i took the kids she didn't do anything at all for six months she didn't call or ask after us.
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i spoke to her relatives about her reaction they told me she felt ok as she had more time to go out it would reinforce a story there are i am lucky that i. don't miss their mother but they want to have one in other words they don't miss a specific person when the mob want a mother figure on talk of not the one who gave birth to them and abandoned them they just want to have a mum. done it already knows what a good mother should be like and. she should come to my brother and me and kiss goodbye. telling us stories and hugging us so we can fall asleep. i mean. come here come on.
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two thousand kilometers east of moscow in the city of you. a group of single fathers have formed their own club. they get together to discuss many important issues they want local authorities to give more support. it would be good to be able to speak at the government level and defend our civil rights. problems however have no need for politics simply trying to get by with his adolescent daughter. who's already fourteen his youngest is ten over the most rebellious his twelve year old lisa. the girls for the time being the main issue.
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that we see such families more and more often the most common reason is when a mother abandoned her family most frequently because of her antisocial behavior namely alcoholism. the second reason is sadly due to the mother's death. third which may seem quite surprising is the freedom women now have in terms of their career prospects. of. the fathers grapple with important issues kids learn to make paper cranes. when the cranes are tied to the children rushing to the street with their. how legal release are balloons into the stars together with our crazy. lady gaga.
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everyone sees the balloons fly off into the sky except for alexander who pulls off he is completely blind when he told the single fathers club it was hard for me to believe him at first. leave me everywhere here it's impossible for me to walk on land how can i and so busy. alexander stories would be similar to thousands of other single fathers if not for his eyes. a few years ago his wife left for another family shortly before the divorce the man lost his eyesight in a car accident he stayed alone with his three young daughters. says here papa. had first alexander's relatives helped him with the girls now he's learned to care for them by himself.
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eager to go to have lives five hundred kilometers south of moscow in the city of course many people that know him if you. can hear the largest one stop wait a minute wait don't dance. it wastes only four to five kilos from the b.s. we keep them for me so we can eat me while the kids are in school i go in concert grass. and they come home they first have a rest and then the also go and get some grass so there is enough in the evening and for the next morning you. start here comes our little lena. my hold up alina how was school it was ok one march did you get four out of five.
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what a good girl you are you know. i believe that if he goes youngest daughter she's only nine years old in total going to go to have has ten children two girls and eight boys his oldest already have families and homes of their own party but from the moment you step through the front door it's obvious that a large family lives in this house. the younger children usually help their older sister in the kitchen to cook a dinner for such a big family takes a lot of time and effort. but. often tells us about mom now and says that she was kind and beautiful and that she helped people that mama loved us so. in two thousand and five they were expecting the eleventh child. the pregnant woman was taken to a maternity hospital but suddenly the family was shattered with terrible news the
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mother had committed suicide at the clinic. i started drinking i didn't go to the funeral they buried her with. her feet then i stopped and i simply didn't know what to do. with the woman has responsibilities a man has. a sudden i had to attend to both of them it was very. very difficult at the bourse. keep. a father cannot substitute a mother it's simply impossible woman is a woman and the man is a man there's nothing to add to it because the body is more caring more affectionate more delicate. by nature and we can do anything about it when you want
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when you. very difficult for the children to live without their mother you know they need someone to kiss them. this is the favorite story told. to ivan the terrible use to climb this tower to see executions on the red square. conducting excursions around red square in moscow. joining alexa's to a group on red square. this isn't a place where people get executed but rather where decrees issued by the czar were not. alexei raises three children alone living alongside of an eco in his apartment brothers and. there's also a dog
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a cat and a turtle look at different life animal since i was a little girl we always had a lot of cats at home when my mother worked at the pet store i often spent time there after school i love animals very much. and her two brothers lost their mother to cancer. you know you call. me small me bernie who was raised by her mother. as for anton he remembers his mother and the older he gets the more he thinks about her she try can see it shows that when he sees his mom's picture he says it's mom and then asks why people die and the other day he asked me what's the purpose of life the boys only six years old. alexei hired a nanny to help take care of the children she cooks for them and puts them to bed.
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but what if it's been two and a half years since right anymore what do you mean women think that men can't take care of their children they always want to show how to do it are they come up to us in the street and wipe their noses it gets on my nerves really do they think i can't do it myself christian another thing is that people tell me all the time that they feel sorry for me well ok thank you for those of the face of this one day you simply find yourself all alone well thank you and you understand the have to do something you're very likely getting something. plus you're under enormous stress. the next planned joining the natural world together they visit the zoo. there's a way about thirty. illiterate to train no one because you want to ride the train.
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and this is the african elephant not to be confused with the asian elephant african elephants have big ears asian ones have smaller. places to look the child is climbing up there now it's a pickle mother would say what on earth are you doing climb down immediately the police and firefighters will arrive but a father would say well it's good you're safe and sound it's good you haven't fallen down great and if a child falls down he will be happy. that's the main difference in the way men and women bring our children. this one. to balloons police.
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more news today violence is once again flared up. these are the images cold world has been seeing from the streets of canada. giant corporations are the day. i . thought of his children to a skating rink his eldest son is already
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a good skater he even has help t.j. i thank you so what's your step thank you stay here i was going to use. your phone to skating and it took the older one only a couple of weeks to learn how to skate decently. he doesn't slip he can make turns and knows how to stop thanks come on come on her that was it just go to a quick stop her how good. i knew she was we have no contact with my ex-wife she's married to another man and has already given birth to a daughter she never calls us to do she's lost all interest in the kids i last saw
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her half a year ago last deal or some remembers his mother but the younger doesn't know what is up and couldn't understand why she was trying to hug him i thanked him down you go also did you have fun. don't worry when you grow up billions. thank you none of the people i know pity me that still could be seen nothing extraordinary about my situation after all single mothers are quite common so there's nothing unusual about a single father the more so that men are stronger than women. have persuaded him to. take them to see their mother even though that's not an easy thing to do. is to arrange to get together in the near future. when you catherine berg. family is following its usual daily routine in the morning
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the head of the family and his older daughter go to the kitchen to prepare breakfast. although the father is blind he has no difficulty cooking meals his daughter is by his side always ready to help. out some more flour here but i steer it sometimes it feels it's getting thicker on other occasions and. if you feel resistance it means it's ready it's not just that flour. here's the milk. ok just a little bit of no. truth sometimes i can see a glimmer of light but i don't see any lights most of the time but with the situation doesn't happen much i rather worry about the kids i want them to grow up to become decent people more room or more they also asked me questions about their mother i said without mincing words your mother does not need you she abandoned you and found another man that's a lie told him. that's illegal and i come eat. of
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a group i know who's who when i hear their voices i learned to recognise them a long time ago well kircher. she wants to be chefs. for leno wants to be a veterinarian regular good remarkable liza is still in two minds she wants to be either a cook or a singer. which will see how we work out. oh my some mothers are just not worth mentioning at all. hours wanted to send us to an orphanage of all places but our father took us away from her. i'd say fathers are more concerned about their children. my feel happy because i have to go it's a joy to know that they're with me they help me to show how the innocence found in
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children they are my children. before dawn breaks father of ten you go to their heads to the marketplace and course he takes care not to stock up on too much food even though he has so many children. i know for a fact that the kids will snatch up the best bits and leave the rest to rot then i'll have to give the leftovers to the dogs i don't want that sort of thing happening buying too much food is a bad idea. the market vendors are all familiar with eagle they know he has many children and offer him good discounts. i'd like some of those sausages the high girls hello how many do you want able do not many today. is also a jar of mayonnaise and chocolate for the kids it's just. people
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help us and may god help them. will be in dire poverty were not for them. it was like hello. when my wife died a moscow businessman bought a car for us. the outhouse has been built by a wealthy man from poor i don't even know his name. but here from work a man also built a hole in the large bathroom the shower will be made later the toilet is in order and the floor is heated i've got no idea who that wealthy man is. her. i'd also like to have the other floor put in order to make more room for the kids for the time being the place is a bit crowded. on the new york. the kids remember their mother pictures of her all over the place. i simply can't
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afford to let another woman live here i haven't asked the kids about their attitude never even occurs to me that i might share this home with another woman i want to with the previous because i want the children to grow up to become decent people i don't want anything artificial about them. i don't want them to cheat but to be honest in adult life the way they are now when you know i don't want them to tell false hoods or make wild promises for sean you're doing more. becomes a playground for his kids and he's not particularly strict with them on such occasions he can devote his full attention to the children. and i'm firmly convinced that it's no use trying to shape your children the way they like most people feel like
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you when they grow up therefore you'd better educate yourself that's my favorite saying. i've seen any number of parents devoting so much time and effort to raising their children in reality though the children simply mimic their parents. thoughts but if a child communicates with gentle people who are themselves outstanding individuals then the child will be like them. that they came as a great secret i'd like to disclose to all fathers is this teaching children is a very interesting thing but which are especially if you achieve some results like if the child learns to read or write or imitate something that you do. as the bank you are to almost but it's over here or it's like organizing a business or getting a promotion or something like that it's really fascinating to realise that you can foster something and show that. your version. of. i find it very important to make sure that kids have
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a grog view of the world it's been about that you should be afraid of reaching out to other people with different languages or in other countries. it's my little son is trying to climb up a hill knowing full well he'd never make it and yet he keeps trying and reaches the top this is like going to paris it's like seeing the world in a different light. whether men should allow a woman to live with the kids simply because they need a mother by their side is debatable in my opinion. the man woman relationship is built on other for september we're going to put it plainly supposing i allow that woman to be with our kids they will grow up and go their separate ways but i'll have to stay on with that woman the two i need that lost both very many children have grown up without the care of fathers and mothers but there are none the worse for that. is.
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the romance of sort of children that come to see their mother who left them had their father a long time ago. she's brought along her daughter from her new marriage. you go to school yes. you've brought to be quite big. how are you doing yeah. how's life ok it was so quiet what did you want to ask her how are you oh we're good. how are you i am ok your ears aren't frozen i hope one day i said he was all smart boy. some people break up because of a clash of characters with us it was just that our temperaments may have been too much of the match we were really we were never given to each other.
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sometimes at night and i wake up and i start to cry because i remember you. like. you need to ask your father to call me and have him bring you over to me. and a man didn't want my children to share a home with another man and call him father. were most that's one of the reasons. at first it really pain me to know that they were going to be not with me but with him. but now not so much. who are the kids are better off with a man than with me it's really important that a man raises boys. when are you going to come to us again. to visit
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or to live with us to live. well i don't know about that. it's not up to us to the site we'll find out later we'll decide that it's not all of the research do you really want me to leave my husband and child and return to you. work and i see no reason for that to. you. rick.
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more. importantly. for me. here is mitt romney trying to figure out the name of that thing that we americans
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call a dog. i'm sorry i'm just a guy who cares an awful lot like you sir are a fool. that is my self does not want us to defeat terrorism the only ball the crystal ball can secure beliefs about it's. going to slip are going to distract us from what you and i should care about because they're profit driven industry that sells us sensationalistic garbage because of breaking news i'm having martin and we're going to break that. he.

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